Women often asked me, "where can I find a good, real, honest  man?  Let's take a look at some facts? To every 100 black men, 21 percent have no high school diploma, 17 percent unemployed and those between the age of 25-35, 8 percent are incarcerated. This numbers do account for the men who are interested in other men and the one's who are married!

Let's just say, things look challenging for black women today. There is something I want to share with all the women reading this blog , "With so many single black women to choose from(42 percent of all black women have never been married) , some men are not interested in being in a committed relationship. They rather try to sleep with as many women as possible than to be in one monogamous relationship. So, what can you do?

Asked the man you are interested in what is his intention with you early so that you do not become a statistic. And, be happy being single! God is great at putting us in positions to be great, Just wait your turn! 

My heart goes out to all the survivors in Haiti. And those people trying to cope with a loved one who has died or is still missing. I can only imagine the pain of me losing that special someone without warning.
But maybe this is a reminder for the rest of us to take a quick minute to phone, text, email or twitter our special "someones"  how important he or she or they really are in our lives.
In other words, don't be afraid to tell them how you feel because, Y'NEVANO.