Women often asked me, "where can I find a good, real, honest  man?  Let's take a look at some facts? To every 100 black men, 21 percent have no high school diploma, 17 percent unemployed and those between the age of 25-35, 8 percent are incarcerated. This numbers do account for the men who are interested in other men and the one's who are married!

Let's just say, things look challenging for black women today. There is something I want to share with all the women reading this blog , "With so many single black women to choose from(42 percent of all black women have never been married) , some men are not interested in being in a committed relationship. They rather try to sleep with as many women as possible than to be in one monogamous relationship. So, what can you do?

Asked the man you are interested in what is his intention with you early so that you do not become a statistic. And, be happy being single! God is great at putting us in positions to be great, Just wait your turn! 

If you goggle facebook divorce, you will see more than 20 million search results! Facebook is suppose to be about finding new friends or connecting with old friends? It is rapidly becoming a BIG reason for couples to head down divorce ally.  I have seen messages between two people that could be seen as sexual chatter or SMS-Social Media Sex.  Spouses are looking daily at their mates pages to see if there is any inappropriate texting. Are spouses insecure? Is this type of flirting a symptom of what is already happening in the marriage?

Heres the question? Is facebook the reason for divorce?

What do you think?

Me and a dear friend of mine have been looking at profiles of men who have indicated that they are in a relationship but are having very subtle flirtatous conversations with women.  If you are in a relationship or married, should your man be having flirty conversation with other women?  What would you do if your man was sending flirtatous messages to a friend on his facebook page?

Derrick
Author: Why Good Girls Date Bad Boys!